Archive - You Do Know

Structure makes for safety

The outside of the service station seemed constructed of almost as many shades of indistinct grey as her memories.

Apr 1 •

March 2025

Being organised and being persistent and maybe a bit pedantically boring - relationship between m/other and father

“I’m really sorry, but I need the toilet.”

Mar 1 •

February 2025

The courage to be nothing, be bored, and to graft away for no reason: the craft of care

Any change brings disturbance. Lights going. Lights coming back, but dimmer. The shiver in the room was palpable.

Feb 1 •

January 2025

The craft of maintenance: m/other tongue, epistemic gestation, and the wonder of growing together

It felt stressful walking into the jewellers — not something he usually did.

Jan 1 •

December 2024

Research update — generating data for the year ahead

Dear friends...

Dec 6, 2024 •

November 2024

The world is not a nice place. Can m/other tongue help things to change?

It was the first time they’d met in town since the incident.

Nov 1, 2024 •

October 2024

Seeking Fulfilment through our m/other tongue

It had grown slowly, the pleasure of being together.

Oct 1, 2024 •

September 2024

Where does intimacy fit in our m/other tongue?

“My eyes are dim, I cannot see, I have not brought my specs with me.”

Sep 1, 2024 •

August 2024

What is ‘courage’ in our M/otherTongue?

They met in the book café in town.

Aug 1, 2024 •

July 2024

What is M/otherTongue for Leadership?

The first time she did it (and she was a she at that point in time), she’d slumped on a garden wall opposite afterwards.

Jul 1, 2024 •

June 2024

Moving forward, breaking down

It was the first time Val had let Graham drive her. It was the first time she’d really allowed herself to not just talk about being vulnerable, but to…

Jun 1, 2024 •

May 2024

Co-regulated — dependence/interdependence — co-creative

Sammy shrieked in delight!

May 1, 2024 •

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